In re-reading, The Collective Memory, by Maurice Halbwachs, I started thinking
about the memories he was discussing and how utterly concrete they all were.
Halbwachs talked of buildings and walls and stones as town markers reminding
locals of memories that bound folks together. While I am of an age that I can
relate to these kinds of historic memories in a visceral way, I kept thinking
about my son’s generation and the generations that have come since. Younger
generations have strong, shared memories that are very different, in locations
that are real, but cyber-real, computer generated.
For my son, experiences have been
shared amongst friends in places that are remembered and have even been revisited
maybe many times. They even recall stories of adventures, losses and wins in
these places they discovered or created. I’m not a part of this life, so it’s foreign
to me, but I know it has taken up a large part of their lives growing up. Even
as they have entered into adult life, they find time to spend with each other
in these other worlds, even though they now live in different parts of the
world.
The time they spent developing
these cyber-memories has taken time away from time they could have been developing
real-life memories in the outside world. (And, I must say, they have traveled
the world together and have real life adventures to remember too. They do get
outside!) I can’t say this computer-generated world of memories is right or
wrong. I won’t be living into their future and seeing how this plays out, so I
want to withhold judgement. But, as a person in the middle of my life, it give
me a strange perspective. It leaves me with a feeling of loss for the value of
neighborhood unity that I experiences growing up, even if it came with some strife.
Communication builds a network and a quality of life that defines a community.
We then build attachments to our neighborhoods and value the space we live in
because we are invested in our space in a familiar, cherished way. When a great
amount of the population is inside their homes most of the day, interacting
with each other through the internet over many years, I wonder if that leaves
much to build a strong sense of community-identity from in the long run.
The reading dealt entirely on
relationships of all sorts, from local to business. I just wonder how this
cyber relationship may help, hinder or maybe have no lasting effect on forming
stronger community identity in the future. As the 20-somethings mature, they
will find it a more pressing issue and I hope that there is some positive consequences that
rises from this social-cyber environment they have invested so much time in.